My's lifestyle and mine

My and I have become friends of each other for 2 years. She is older than me 5 years old. We have many difference things in thinking, opinion and the way we solve a problem. However, when she had something sad or get problem she couldn’t overcome, she always told me, and so do I. We also share the funny things together. Day by day, we realized that we have some similar things. It makes our friendship closer. Besides that, her characters and her lifestyle which are very different from me make me admire her in many respects.

First, the similar things, we both are independent and strong persons who don’t need the boy’s help. She always said that why we need the boy’s help while we can do it ourselves. For example, when our power supply wire broke down she fixed it by herself instead of having some boys to help. And for me, I couldn’t stand the feeling that I am not able to solve the problem and need some help, especially boy’s help. Besides that, both of us like to travel through Vietnam country. She would like to enjoy the beautiful scenes such as Ha long Bay, Nha Trang Beach, Hue Ancient Palace, Nha Rong Port,etc. I really want to discover and learn about Vietnam’s culture also Vietnam’s history. We are planning for this by saving money to complete our dream.

Second, besides the similar things, we also have difference in lifestyle. She is an active girl; people arround will be stirred by her humorous and hilarious. The motto of her life is live as tomorrow you die. Therefore, she is always full of energy. In the contrast, I’m quite silent. I will not show my inner feeling, thinking to strange people. In addition, meanwhile I have no plan for my future, even for the day following. She always had her plan in next week, next month, and next year, even five years later. When you ask her "what would you do next?" She can rely in detail immediately, clearly about her purposes, producers to achieve those targets. She always gets the intended results.

Similar things make us more sympathetic and closer, different things make me admire her lifestyle. Both of them make our friendship more and more unshakeable. Making friend with her helps me support my shortcomings and grow very much.

parents with spending time with their children

With the development of economy, people tend to pursue high quality living conditions. Most of parents try their best to offer their children comfortable circumstances, but they seldom have time to stay with their children. In my point, no matter how busy they are, they should make the use of their time to stay with their children.

The love between children and their parents will be improved by spending more time together. First, children could feel parent’s affection through the genial conversations and sharing their pleasure with them. Every time when their parent take them to park, cinema, picnic, help them to prepare their birthday parties, reward them when they get high marks. The time they spend with their children will become treasure in their memories. Another reason, children need orientations from their parents. There are some crimes in our society such as dishonesty, corruption, violence and eroticism. In this case, parent’s introductions seem to be very important to children growth. Parent should sit down and talk with them about what they should do and shouldn’t. In addition, if parents often spend time to stay with children, adults’ good behaviors will greatly influential their children. But some parents said that spending too much time for children parents will restrict their children and give them little freedom to develop their interests. It may be true. However, it doesn’t mean that spending their time with their children is not good. Parent should educate and instruct their children reasonablely.

In fact, any child in the word really wants their parents beside them in order to feel the care, the love, the education and the right orientations of their parent. It makes the love between them closer. Especially, it helps the children have the right realizations about life. Therefore, spending time with children is really important. It is effective to the children’s life in the future deeply.